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Done. I found the problem.I really want to get into a relationship with a girl but I just lack the confidence to go ask here out.
I don't really have that confidence to ask her out in the first place.
First of all, don't think about consequences. It doesn't matter what may happen. By talking to her, asking if she's interested in doing something with you, having a coke or whatever, is way cooler than all the kiddos around, being like " he asked her " - Just me different than others are.
If you're just like everyone else, people won't notice you.
Do you remember all the last persons you looked at in school when you entered school ? Doubt that. But you STILL remember this guy, being totaly crazy and running around naked at school, don't you ?
Being different is the way to go. Be better, or if you're not able to be better, be funny or atleast interesting.
You think she isn't interested in anything you do ? Well, try to meet up with her. It hasn't to be cinema, movies or dinner. It can be something like "learning group" or even just some hangarounds in the city. - It really doesn't matter. Anyway, if you meet up with her, let her talk. Woman LOVE to talk. And if she doesn't - Well, talk about your teachers, last happenings or weekend activities. There's so much space to talk.. so much STUFF to talk about.
If you think you're not confident enough - Well, you might try to get her involved with your friends. If you and your friends will do something cool - Why not asking her to join ? There is also a way not to make it that obvious (If you're THAT scared).
Just go around with your friends, talking about things you might do. Whenever you got a topic and she's somewhere around you - Shout around like " IS THERE ANYONE WHO WANTS TO JOIN US ? " - Just for the lulz (that's atleast what people will think [they might even think you're just stupid or crazy, but nvm, as I said before, don't care about others opinion]). - No one will answer you, probably, BUT people will have a look at you - That's your chance. If she's looking at you, just ask her DIRECTLY if she's willing to join you (like this: "You ? I heard you wanna join us Tomorrow 18 o'clock!".
Most likely she'll be fuckin' confused and therefore just give you an okay or totally shocked "NO NEVAR PEDO!"
The best tip: Do not care about others opinion.
Hope that helped.
Best regards, Tracky
Don't listen to any posts that start with: "In my school"
Drink something with alcohol
Make sure you dont care about anything anymore
Ask her out
My car is not leaking oil?
Its marking its territory!
Hmmm... I know I cant help but The first step will be to start a conversation with her... all the rest will follow after the first "Hi"..
Just take a deep breath and jump into it... If she is interested, you will soon find out
But dont ask others for clues.. its your life... and choises are a big part of it.
Good luck Justin =)
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Thanks guys for the advice. Now I just need to somehow meet up with her. And maybe I'll give an update if it works.
You should get to her as soon as you see her alone and talk to her about anything, than later (not that day) ask her out...