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    Arrow questions about psychology and behaviour caused through a lot of problems

    Hey d3scene-members

    first i wanna say that i never saw such a liberal community. hope ya excuse my bad engllish, im swiss.



    im 16, didnt fuck a girl yet, & having big trouble with myself. im not very selfconscious, i dont like 2stand in the spotlight. i often think that im very stupid and so on. Buuuut, i've just met very many nice ppl. My friendcircle is growing rapidly.

    Last weekend i met my best friend, who i know since i can think. He has a gf and i met her also on that weekend. He said to her that im a virgin (is this the right word? should mean a person who wasnt fcked alrdy :/) and she showed me her friend on facebook. I was so drunk that i dindt see her face^^ but few days later i looked at her ond facebook while i wasnt drunk she's pretty goodlooking.

    But!!!! My best friend has just planned to meet us with his gf and this goodlooking girl next weekend. I dont know how i should behave me. Also his gf wrote to her that im lookin 4some fun and she should forget her old bf.

    Now im very scared, because im not selfconfident and i dont know how to react/behave.
    Also i just wanted to know if its better if i cook halawa than shavin my balls with a blade. Alrdy did this, didnt look well

    Best regards
    Vesanius

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    sniff a lot of cocaine and you are the selfconfidents men on planet.

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    Lets exlude drugs like cocain for a constructive way to get selfconfident.

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    Just try to keep cool and if you think she likes you too, ask for her number and speak with her later via facebook. If she really really seems to like you don't hold back and express her straight that you re in love with her! Hope everything turns out well for ya. xD

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    Be yourself and actually show her you care. Dont over do the caring, or she will think you are too clingy; be a fuckin man and get things done sometimes haha; if she asks you questions, answer. If she talks, LISTEN and reply, dont just listen and sit there like a jack ass, you need to be outgoing and show her you can have fun. Highschool dating is not a whole big or deal to worry about, but its nice if you want the option. Personally I didnt have sex until AFTER highschool, main reason was that I preferred to have fun with my friends instead of wasting time with a girl I knew I wouldnt be with forever. After highschool it gets easier, but practice is good I suppose. If she doesnt like you for how you are, then obviously she doesnt want you. You cant beat yourself up over that fact, there are MANY fish in the see, and you need to be the shark.

    I wish you the best of luck on your "journey" hehe

    PS: Look into her eyes when you're talking, dont be nervous for there is no reason to be nervous. Get comfortable. There is a reason why eyes are beautiful, they connect each other through subconscious ... One love. Its how I managed to find a women I live with now.
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    Usually 1 rule always applys.

    Dont go by rules, if something happens that doesnt cover your rules, your screwed.

    Just go into it and learn from it.

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    There are no rules in one night stands.

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    If its a one night stand act all like gangster and shit

    chicks dig dat

    if you want a long thing

    then be urself cuz

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    Quote Originally Posted by FruitJuice View Post
    If its a one night stand act all like gangster and shit

    chicks dig dat
    Nope. If you do that you will simply show you've got no interest, that you only care about yourself. Accourding to your first post it seems that she's looking for the right guy she's just not found him yet. This is your chance to please her and make her not wonder if she needs another. I hope it goes well for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FruitJuice View Post
    If its a one night stand act all like gangster and shit

    chicks dig dat

    if you want a long thing

    then be urself cuz
    I am not trying to b erude here, but honestly that sounds like that stupidest idea haha. It might work for younger girls, because they think a "bad boy" is hard to tame, but in reality and where most of us adults actually try to live .. we are all past that phase IMHO.


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